Dear Abby: Long-suffering wife and mother is ready to move on
<p><b>DEAR ABBY:</b> I am living in total dysfunction with my daughter (32) and husband (75). I am retired and going on 76.
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A 76‑year‑old retired woman wrote to Dear Abby for help. She lives with her 75‑year‑old husband and her 32‑year‑old daughter, who has OCD, refuses medication, and depends on her mother for transportation and emotional support. The daughter yells, insults her mother, and the police have been called before. The daughter recently got into a college program for a second master’s degree and wants her mother’s help.
Why it matters
This story shows how untreated mental‑health issues can strain family relationships, especially for elderly caregivers. It highlights the need for support and resources for both the person with OCD and their family.
- What is the main problem the woman describes?
- Her daughter’s untreated OCD makes her dependent, controlling, and abusive toward her mother.
- Why did the woman write to Dear Abby?
- She seeks advice on how to handle the situation and decide whether to move on.
How outlets are framing the same story
Here's how each outlet is covering the story — compare their headlines and timing at a glance.
All outlets present the same advice‑column excerpt, focusing on the mother’s plea for help and the daughter’s behavior.
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Dear Abby: Long-suffering wife and mother is ready to move on
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