My Boyfriend Is Hopping on a Particular “Sex Trend” for Men. Uh, This Isn’t Going to Work for Me.


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A 25‑year‑old woman has been dating her 26‑year‑old boyfriend Alec for almost a year. They often have dirty‑talk phone calls at least twice a week because they do not live together. Alec has decided to stop masturbating, a trend some men are trying. She worries this change will not work for her high sex drive.
Why it matters
It shows how personal sexual habits can affect a couple’s intimacy and why open communication matters in relationships.
- What is Alec doing that concerns his girlfriend?
- He has stopped masturbating.
- How often do the couple talk dirty on the phone?
- At least twice a week.
How outlets are framing the same story
Here's how each outlet is covering the story — compare their headlines and timing at a glance.
All outlets (just Slate) present the story as a personal advice question about a boyfriend’s new habit.
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My Boyfriend Is Hopping on a Particular “Sex Trend” for Men. Uh, This Isn’t Going to Work for Me.
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