Dear Abby: Needy neighbor is constantly asking for things
<p><b>DEAR ABBY:</b> I moved into my apartment four months ago. While my sister, her son and I were moving things in, my new next-door neighbor introduced herself.
Reported by 2 outlets — Chicago Sun-Times, New York Post. See all sources ↓
A person moved into a new apartment four months ago. The next-door neighbor keeps knocking on the door asking for things like plastic bags, cigarettes, and alcohol. The neighbor asks for something every day, sometimes six times in one day. The writer feels overwhelmed and asks Abby for help setting boundaries.
Why it matters
Setting clear boundaries with neighbors helps protect personal well-being and maintains a peaceful living environment. Readers can learn how to handle similar situations without feeling guilty.
- What is the main issue the writer faces?
- The neighbor constantly asks for items and visits too often, making the writer feel tired and overwhelmed.
- What does Abby suggest as a solution?
- Abby advises the writer to be honest and tell the neighbor the truth about needing space and limits.
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Both outlets present the same letter and Abby's reply with almost identical wording. They do not differ in emphasis or tone.
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Sources2TypeCoverageChicago Sun-Times
New York Post